Kids need more from you than money can provide. How much actual parenting is he going to be able to give? I can't imagine that the 2 mommies have warm feelings towards each other. And who's to say that he'll stay with the present one? I see potential for a difficult situation....as adults I say it's their problem that they chose...unfortunately it could be roughest on the kids. I feel bad for them, no matter how much "stuff" they have.