I think most of us, or I should probably say many of us, are of the mindset that Ben will learn to live with whoever the new OC is. Now that it's Haley and considering that he's the polar opposite of what Bruce Arians was, he will have some adjusting to do.
Ben is an adult, he's a professional, but he is used to getting his own way with the offense. Bruce was like a father figure to him in many ways and the offense was built for him. Haley will bring his own brand of coaching which will be much different than the quiet style that BA had. That's not to say that Arians wasn't passionate about his game, but Haley is more vocal about it.
I think Ben will get a long with Todd pretty well once they get an understanding of what is to be expected from him from his new coach and vice versa. Ultimately he will deal with it and hopefully take his game to the next level.