Interesting discussion... I'll probably get killed for this but the type of leader I think this team needs is a Brady-type. The guy plays with fire. He gets in people's faces and gets them going. I like Ben a lot, but sometimes with him it's just like "awwww shucks, we'll get'em next time."
As far as off-field activities, it's become a new generation and as much as I don't like it, I've accepted it. Part of being in the game is marketing and selling one's self now. The stuff Pouncey and Redman were doing is a little over the top but I guess I'll take that versus being caught with the mary jane or being accused of sexual assault.
Hey, at least we aren't the Jets or Cowboys.